These days I am not being a very good leader. I have been feeling a bit down because of the constant buffetings of Satan, who wants me to feel feelings of guilt, malice, and envy. I have not been a good example this week because I was down a bit. However, Dr. Neil Cox's advise to lead to serve, not serve to lead, was wonderful advise. He taught the principles of servant leadership. I loved a quote he presented by Robert K. Greenleaf, "the servant-leader is a servant first... it begins with the natural feeling that one wants to serve, to serve first. Then conscious choice brings one to aspire to lead." The story of Ken Iverson was awesome. He was CEO of Nucor Steel and as a CEO, he was not intent on getting as much benefits as possible out of his position, but in enhancing as much as possible the positions of his employees. He loved them and used his power and money to provide scholarships for his employees, even when one guy had nine children. Such a mind is admirable and amazing, but it is also a very difficult mindset to cultivate in today's world of big salaries and selfishness.
One thing I can try is to use this principle to serve others. But I find it difficult to serve others without expecting anything back at all, even their recognition or respect. When I serve, I find that I expect them to recognize my sacrifice and be thankful for it and recognize me for my efforts. But I know that in order for service to be of service, it must be given in the spirit of love. I know then that I will be blessed, and that person will be blessed.
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Bro. Cox is one of my favorite role models I have ever had. In fact, I am holding a letter he wrote for me yesterday for something I am trying to petition for. I would recommend taking the time someday to stop by his office and say hi to him. He is the director of student leadership on campus. You actually sat next to him on the very first day of class. Anyway, if you want I can introduce him to you if you ever want.
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